Stuck
in the Middle
The
Rollercoaster of Status
Trouble
at Home
Downwardly
Mobile
Be
Careful What You Wish For
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Karen's
dad is a career Army man, and Karen is a quintessential "Army
brat," having lived ten places in twenty years. Although she
has gotten used to the traveling, Karen had a hard time adjusting
to the sharp changes in her social status that come with each
move. Until the age of 10 she was oblivious to class differences,
but when she hit middle school she began to notice how she
was perceived by others. For a while the family lived in a
small town in Western Pennsylvania, where her father, a colonel,
was considered part of the local elite. Karen fondly remembers
country club visits with her friends who were the daughters
of the local banker and lawyer. But then her father was posted
to the Pentagon, where colonels are a dime a dozen. She moved
to rental housing in a Virginia suburb and felt excluded from
the golden inner circle at her new high school. The family
couldn't get into the "best" country club, her clothes seemed
out of fashion, and Karen developed a sense of resentment
that complicates her relationship with her parents.
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